Written by Uyoyou Christiana Charles-Iyoha
Avoid the use of negatives. As much as possible, use
positives anytime you communicate whether it is verbal or non verbal
communication. People generally flock to people who speak and act positively
and; avoid people who speak and act negatively. That explains why motivational
speakers and preachers attract large audiences. Nobody likes to hear or see
negative things. Only people who enjoy negativity, people who do not see any
bright side to life would want to see or hear that. However, it is significant
to note that depressed people who hear and see positive things become
transformed. This implies that positive communication brings about healing and positive
transformation. Please see Proverbs Chapter 15 verse 30.
A person’s tone also
communicates success. A gentle tone for
instance reflects the peace, love and compassion of God in the heart of a
person. On the other hand, a harsh tone, to a large extent is a reflection of
the inner turmoil of the heart – envy, anger, jealousy, bitterness, hatred, and
refusal to forgive. Sarcasm is a manifestation of spite, envy, resentment,
jealousy and hatred. It is intended to hurt, wound a person, group of persons, and
organizations with words and tone. A sarcastic person never sees good in other
people. Therefore s/he does not want the happiness of other people and will
always deliberately choose sarcasm as a way of speech. Both words and tone
reflect the anger and resentment in the person’s spirit and mind. Such people
do not communicate success.
A vengeful and vindictive person is likely to always
communicates judgment and evil from God because a vengeful and vindictive person
always want people who have offended him or her to pay for what they done. Such
people usually have no room in their hearts for forgiveness and letting go. Their
communication often creates fear, worry and anxiety. On the other hand, e a
very compassionate and forgiving person communicates mercy, forgiveness, grace,
abundance, creativity and wealth; success, miracles and a healthy reverence and
respect of and for God. Such communication frees up people to heal internally
and externally in addition to help them become creative by the Spirit of God. It
is not surprising that most judgmental people are vengeful and vindictive
especially when they keep harping on judgment.
Sadly, vengeful and vindictive people really do not
make progress spiritually and in most cases in every other areas of life. This
is because they are forever looking for and waiting for the judgment of God to
fall on people and destroy them. They never see the mercy or grace of God. Unfortunately,
they do not have the capacity to bring healing to the nations. That is why they
sometimes remain stuck in a rut, stagnate and retrogress into depression,
uncontrolled outbursts of anger, fury, bitterness and resentment.
Beloved, you are divinely designed to communicate
success through the love of God so that as you graciously proclaim the love and
mercy of God, you stir the hearts of peoples and nations to the great love of
God for them. And as people embrace the deeply overwhelming love of God and
mercy for them, they receive healing in about every area of their lives and
healing comes to the nations.
A person’s grooming and dressence also communicates
success in addition to reflecting either positivity or negativity. Dressing and
grooming negatively as if the end has come does not in any way reflect the love
and mercy of God. Dressing severely as if that is what makes anyone righteous
does not also communicate success and the love of God. Endeavor to dress
positively, decently and beautifully in a way which communicates the great love
and mercy of God as well as the unparalleled beauty of God in God and the entire
creation of God. God Who created this very beautiful universe also expects you
to dress beautifully. Shalom.
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